For the people asking where grace is, shes currently in foster care with a temporary family. she has been there since my dad passed away last october (2012). the family is nice but they are not long term foster carers and are not trained to be. so for the people who send me hate saying i should leave her there and ‘well maybe she likes them’, the answer is yes she does like them, they are very good to her (and they are kind to me and my family) but she cannot stay their permanently, she has already been there over a year and she is the second longest placement they have had. if i dont win in court to get her, she has to go to a new family and they can be anywhere in the country (not scotland or wales, only england), she wont know them and neither will i, and i will also lose visitation rights to her and it will depend upon the family and their reports whether i get to see her or not, and that is why i dont want her in foster care. yes we will struggle with money etc but every penny i earn through ads goes into a bank account for her so she can have clothes, food, heating, she can be involved in school, have birthday parties and be able to go on school trips, i dont want grace to be the odd one out of her friends and be the one with nothing. i am working my ass off at two jobs to try and sort everything out so please dont be mean to me and tell me what i am doing it wrong, even her social worker and current foster family agree gracie should live with me.
sorry for the long explanation but i get a lot of questions about it, sorry for the possible bad grammar and spelling too, i am very tired night night xxx